At the very beginning of your Spanish classes, you probably learned āMe llamoā¦ā to say āMy name isā¦ā but did you know it literally translates to āI call myselfā? In fact, this introductory phrase is part of a category of verbs called reflexive verbs. There are lots of reflexive verbs in Spanish that have special rules, and weāll explain them more here.
What are reflexive verbs?
These are verbs where the person doing the action is also the person receiving the action. Most verbs have a subject, the one that does the action, and an object, the one that receives the action. In many cases, the subject and the object are different. In the case of reflexive verbs, you do the action to yourself. You can think of them as reflexive because the action reflects back on the subject, like a reflection in a mirror.
The tricky part about learning reflexive verbs in Spanish is that most of them arenāt exactly the same in English. For example, a really common verb is ādespertarseā which in English means āto wake up.ā In English, you donāt really say āto wake oneself up,ā but thatās how it literally translates in Spanish.
Conjugating reflexive verbs
First, we have to be able to identify reflexive verbs. Verbs end in -ar, -er or -ir, but reflexive verbs will have a -se at the end of them. Looking at ādespertarse,ā we see the -ar ending in ādespertarā and then the -se ending at the end. This tells us that despertarse is a reflexive verb. This means that we can split reflexive verbs into two parts: the main verb and the reflexive component ā-se.ā
The main verb conjugates just like normal- based on the subject and the tense. However, we have to make sure to conjugate the ā-seā too. First, move it to the front of the verb. Then, youāre going to conjugate it based on the subject. Remember, reflexive verbs mean that whoever is doing the action does it to themself. There are 6 reflexive pronouns that you need to know. Weāll show you them along, and in context of the verb despertarse.
yo me -> me despierto
tĆŗ te -> te despiertas
Ʃl/ella/usted se -> se despierta
nosotros(as) nos -> nos despertamos
vosotros(as) os -> se despertƔis
ellos/ellas/ustedes se -> se despiertan
Common reflexive verbs
There are lots of common reflexive verbs in Spanish in addition to despertarse. Some of them are:
- Levantarse ā to get oneself up
- Lavarse ā to wash oneself
- Ducharse ā to shower oneself
- Cepillarse ā to brush oneself
- Acostarse ā to put oneself to bed
There are lots of other reflexive verbs in Spanish, and before long, youāll be using them all the time like a pro!

